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Is love a feeling or a choice? How?

21 answers

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  irukandji

  4 days ago

  a choice. love is the thing you do when you ARENT feeling it. and believe me, there will be days you dont feel it. but you do it because you choose to

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  Zatlin Shane

  4 days ago

  Its the truth

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  4 days ago

  both and idk why

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  520

  4 days ago

  Is learning.

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  choco starfish

  4 days ago

  Both. When you choose to love its a feeling that u choose to give to give to a person.that

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  Haruhi

  4 days ago

  irukandji is right in sense, but is also wrong. Love is a feeling. You can choose to act on it or not, thats commitment

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  irukandji

  4 days ago

  @haruhi, i see what you are saying but, i guess in my mind, those arent two seperate things

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  Crack

  4 days ago

  You feel love. You choose to keep loving-- it starts as a feeling, but it survives as a choice

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  Sheera

  4 days ago

  It's a choice.

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  LilHeartBreaker

  4 days ago

  it's a blend of both...just like a good friendship that you feel the connection, but you also choose to keep it strong

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  Axin wangsu

  4 days ago

  It's an feeling

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  4 days ago

  Love always starts at having that feeling, but along the way you will realize it is a choice.

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  Silent Observer

  4 days ago

  Love can exist with or without feeling, but never without choice cuz love is something we choose to do, even though feelings may come and go.

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  Silent Observer

  4 days ago

  You may have no control over who you fall in love with or feel for, but you do have the choice to keep loving or not throughout.

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  GuessWho

  4 days ago

  You can't control love, either you'll feel it or eventually learn to feel it.

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  Wandering

  3 days ago

  Love is a verb, active, not passive. So darn right it‘s a choice

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  Masculine god

  3 days ago

  Love is feeling, you dont choose whom you love, it just happens. Someday gazing through the sky, a realisation hits and everything changes. It's love.

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  May

  3 days ago

  Love is a feeling that could changed in time.

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  Sassy Nerd

  3 days ago

  It could be either. What matters is your consistency to keep loving the person you initially fell for- which can be quite hard at times.

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  2 days ago

  it's both. You feel it. Then you choose to keep it

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  April

  1 day ago

  It's always comes in the feelings and end up with a choice

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